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how can I get over this pain?

last year my bestguy friend killed himself and I I want to get ober this pain but I dont know how. I have friends who act like this is nothing because they never had to say goodbye to some one they love and I dont know what to do the only one who gets my pain is my best friend and she only feels it when we see a pic of him or when people talk about him. I miss him so much but I dont know what to do help me get over this pain please.

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Answer #1

There’s not a lot you can do , people grieve in different ways .. You can say your fine and then one day it will really hit you. Maybe talking to a counsellor/ teacher or parent might help :) x

Answer #2

Your other friends will never be able to completely understand what you are going through. Don’t hold it against them, they are just ignorant. Your best friend is good at blocking the pain until a picture or talk of him rips open her shield she has built. You could try talking to a grief councelor. Eventually the pain won’t be so sharp, but it takes time.

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