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How can I get him to see I have changed?

Well there is this guy I’ve like for like over a year now. We used to text each other stuff. e.g. oh baby I wish you were licking my pussy/sucking my d*. It stopped for a while because we didn’t text for a while. Then about 6 months later it started happening again. I tried not to do any of that with him anymore but then it would just get to me and I would give in. Then it got to where he couldn’t text for a while, or so he says…I found out recently that he can text. But not from him. I heard from one of my friends who one of her friends texts him all the time. I do want to do that to happen sometimes again but I think I can have more self control this time. Its just, he can’t have a conversation with me anymore in person without having sort of an attitude while talking to me. Well I think he lied to me about texting is because he knew what we were doing was wrong, but he couldn’t help himself. But maybe if I have more self control, maybe he will too. I asked him out 2 times. I asked him why he wouldn’t go out with me one time (which I had said that I was already over him, just trying to find out why, which I was lying) and he said because he was afraid we would do something that we both would really regret. But anyways, how can I make him see that I have changed?

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I’ve been in the same problem.I texted this guy Kevin for two years. Two years aha.Talking dirty.We put in a few I love yous.But I did care about him.And he cared about me.But we could never be together.It just could never happen.Then seeing how I never did anything.Well I use to text him off my BESTFRIENS phone when my phone died.And then I guess they started talking behind my back.Like scum much.And they started talking dirty.I started talking to another dude and he didn’t like it one bit.I made another guy my boyfriend to get him mad.Stayed with that guy for a while.But that guy turned into a controling asshole.Then me and that Kevin guy started talking again a year later.And it was weird cause he was fooling around with my most trusted friend Julie.So I was like don’t talk to me.Like really move on.I did.And I’ve been with my boyfriend Matt for a year.Well in two more days it’s our one year<3333 :) and I realize every other guy was nothing.

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