Funadvice Logo
Post
More Love & Relationships Questions

how can I get her back?

my friend and I (who were good m8s) recently had an argument because she keeps canceling plans with me at last minute to do somthing else with her other friends. this time she didnt cancel but she changed them so I said to her… ‘y are you always canceling and changing plans with me for your other m8s, you never do it to them?’. and she told me to f*uck off because im always moaning at her for doin this. she then told me how she cant take it no more and that she dont want anything to do with me. I dunno if it me or her in the wrong here and personally I dont care, I think anyone would get annoyed with someone if they were to do that 9 out of 10 times. and she always blames me for literally everything, she’s never wrong.

but now I feel like sh*t because I lost a good friend over a petty argument and I feel its all down to me, I dont want to lose her friendship because it does mean a lot to me, what can I do to get her back?? or should I just give her space 4 now? and what if she dont contact me after like a week or 2?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

well the thoery is if this story is I think its better for you to giver her space then call her after a few weeks or so an see how shes doin but dont invite her anywhere jst yet jst call to say hello your not in the wrong if anything thas sad to that she jst cancels on you like that so try it out giver her sum spacean jst call her to see wats up tell me how it goes good luck!

Answer #2

yea but thats just it, we never hang out much anyway because we both have our other m8s to see, and I always wait for her to get in contact about hangin out because she’s the one thats more busy than I am. but when we do agree arrangments she cancels out or changes them at last minute. lol thanks for all your advice =] its appreciated a lot.

Answer #3

ok, my advice to you is to stop trying to hang out with her. You can still be her friend, you guys can just talk and see each other whenever. Don’t make a big deal out of her because it’s obvious that she isn’t making a big deal out of you. She might feel pressured to hang out with because you complained about it to her … you should find another friend who wants to hang out with you as much as you’d like… If you see her then great, if not then don’t worry about it…you seriously dont want to keep pressuring this girl, besides she told you to f**k off and that’s not how you talk to or treat a friend!

Answer #4

sounds like she needs space. I would give it a couple weeks and then maybe make a small friendly gesture, just to sort of test the waters. if she is a good friend, she should offer her apologies as well because it sounds like you have a justifed reason for being upset with her. if she has still not realized that she was in the wrong, maybe you are better off to make a new friend who will enjoy your company! good luck

Answer #5

also, apologize to her about bringing the issue up and simply move on after that… hopefully when you apologize it will get the friendship back, but don’t ask her to hang out with you again, let her come to you

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Get Over a Breakup

Relationships, Self-help, Personal development

Advisor

Astro Guru Bhargava

Astrology services, Relationship advice, Love counseling

Advisor

tarotcardsreading.net

Love Readings, Psychic Readings, Relationship Advice

Advisor

प्यार विवाह विशेषज्ञ ज्योतिषी - एनके शास्त्री

Astrology Services, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Advice

Advisor

lovebackexpert.com