How can I finger my girlfriend if she is a virgin?

ok? oral is still sex! technicly you 2 are now longer virginz

your scared which means your not ready. Your 13 sweetie, and follow your feelings.

the first person that cominted is a idiot. She is still a vergin untill you have true all the way sex. Just cheak sites on it they will tell you the truth. -j

oral sex is no more sex than makin out or fingerin alright quit trying ta guilt trip him into stoppin jeeze

Yeah, you can finger her if shes a virgin just make sure shes quite wet (maybe you should even use some lube). It will feel a bit uncomfortable at first (start with one finger and move up when shes ready) but many hymens wear away over time so she may not even have one, especially if she uses tampons. And it is possible that she doesn’t feel much. The nerve endings up there aren’t meant to be super sensitive or else childbirth would be about 100 times worse, thats also the reason that a female can have a tampon in and not even realize that its up there. if you just wanna make her cum go for the clitoris, you don’t even have to enter her for that because the truth is, a female doesn’t orgasm like a guy does, they rarely do while your inside of them, they have to be in somewhat the right mood and it takes longer to build up to it. And also, when she first starts experiencing them, they are going to be rather small, they will get more intense over time.
And its not ‘her fault’ her body needs time to adjust to something like that and takes more than 5 minutes to do that. Like if you both started having intercourse shes not going to enjoy that the first few times either. ITS NORMAL
By the way, oral SEX is SEX. .

omfg don’t start out crazy my boyfriend did that to me and I cudnt walk for days and I bled because he ripped the skin off sfter ihealed he got better start slow wit one finger and then get two and still go slow and ask the first few times if you can go fast and after that ull know when you cant or can try to get in 3 eventually she gotta be really really wet and that guy is stupid your still virgins

don’t finger her for awhile lim aweek or two and then when you do it shell love it sooo much

ok listen I had the same situation happen to me I did fingered her berfore penetrating yes it felt good for me but she went through a lot of pain I say just have sex and get over it and start enjoying it !!!

its neither of your guyses fault I dont think she is redy. if she acts like she dont feel a thing then she dont want it being done to her! but I think you too shuld tlk about it.

dude if you love someone your feeling do the talking

Hey I’m a guy too mabye you should try eating her out. I’m shore she will come

some girls and boys are sexless in which they are not sexually active so don’t worried bout it its natural, all boys and girls are not the same, just be faithful and honest to her and she might tell you everything bout her. Happy to help.

“Have you tried the “G-Spot” Or licking, Rubbing, and flicking the Clint with your tounge?”

It’s a CLIT, like clitoritis. - please don’t ever have sex.

And as for the original poster, that question doesn’t even make sense. Fingering your girlfriend will not take her virginity. Only having actual penis to vagina intercourse can take your virginity. And I’m sorry but, if you are asking that, or all the other things you are confused about, you are MUCH to young to be even thinking about having sex. Wait til you grow up a little, then you’ll be able to answer these questions on your own or with your partner.

no no no, you are still virgins! to not be a virgin you have to have had SEXUALE INTERCOURSE.. and yeah check the definition in the dictionary! Penis in vagina.. not finger in vagina, not tongue… PENIS. you are still viirgins dont listen to people who say other wise, and to your question im not too sure, try rubbing her first.. like over her pants or knickers, then go in and up :) she should hopefulyl enjoy that, x

it’s neither of your faults, it’s just how her body works. just try to do something different the uh 2nd time you try to do it, and find out some new techniques I guess. don’t be so hard on yourself, lol.

LMAO. he said some see her happy and come. LMAO. neways, I dont know, NOT all the girls are the same, some only do the deed ONCE. some do it more than once ya never know what your dealing with… :l