How can I feel better about my appearance?

This is honestly gonna sound cheesy, but if people say you look fine, and you have a girlfriend, then obviously your not that bad. If you’re working out and it’s not working, try to eat more protein, that should help build muscles. From personal experience though, if you only focus on one area it’s not gonna work; you have to do full body exercise. Also, join a sport team, that way you’ll gain more confidence. And, honestly, don’t you think skinny is better then fat? Think about that… I think we all know that answer. The best way to make yourself look better in other people’s eyes, is to keep your head up and smile =) It also sounds like you need to talk to your girlfriend about the ex-boyfriend. She should understand how it makes you feel, and if she doesn’t, you might want to re-think your relationship. If your feeling worthless…Funmail me, cause I’d rather keep it personal.

If you ever want to just talk feel free to funmail me. I’m a good listener, and you sound like a good guy. I really hope this helps, Best of luck!

(nicolecherrier5 @ gmail.com)

thank you all for your help, and I mean it. :) I will definetly try everything all of you said, and this is what I needed guys, thankyou!

You don’t need to compare yourself to stupid guys like him. Some people just like how those guys look. Personally, I like guys like that look like you; my boyfriend has the same body type, and I love it. All you have to do is think more positively; there are plenty of people who would think you are cute! Maybe its not you who needs to change, rather the people are you; if your girlfriend is off with her ex, playing up to him, who needs her? You should just be yourself, and move on to better places!