How can I breakup with my boyfriend without feeling so depressed?

my boyfriend tells me had hotter girlfriends than me , he tells me that he doesnt love me that much , he ditches me, makes me feel really low about myself , always calls me names and puts blame on me for everything , if we go out for supper I pay , if we go to the movies im not allowed to pick the movie , and if I do he complains and ignores me to the point where I feel hes going to break up with me bc I didnt let him pick the movie, he hangs up on me when I call , he ignores my txts, and if I call or txt him to much he tells me im annoying and to f off . there is so much more stuff but it would take me forever to explain the rest , I really feel depressed and im taking anxiety attacks over this , I know he is wrong for me and he calls me every name in the book , and I dont think I have ever cursed at him before , im scared to pick up for myself bc if I raise my voice to him hell leave me ,he got me convinced that ill never find a guy but he will find a new girlfriend if we broke up . how can I get passed this obsession/depression and just move on with my life without him in it

Answer #1

my advice will be hard to take but your situation sounds terrible to me…here is the truth your boyfriend doesnt care about you…its harsh but its very true…the only way to make the way your feeling stop is to stand up for who you are…defend what you belive in…ask yourself this question do I really want to deal with him the rest of my life? most likley the answer is no…I guarentee you you will find a way better guy than this he doesnt deserve you you deserve so much better than scum like him. its time to be strong and be proud of who you are…people who appreciate who you are is worth your time but you can live without him he doesnt deserve the way you treat him he need to be put in his place. dump him suprise him with how confident you are and how strong you have become. once he knows that you wont tolerate the way your treating him he will respect you more and if he doesnt than he isnt worth your time. your a strong girl you deserve better than him…I hope this helps if you nee anymore advice funmail me

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