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Hopelessly stuck in the middle

Where do I start? I’m only 15, but I’ve already found the love of my life. I only want to be with him every moment of the day and this is a big deal for me because I’ve had a bad track record in the past of cheating on boyfriends. He says that he feels the same way and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives and that he will never walk out on me. Only sad part to the story is we can’t be together because of our age difference and distance (he lives in Ohio and I live in New York.) My parents forbidd this to be anymore then a pen-palish relationship, and they are clueless to see that it has developed into so much more. So I’m caught in-between the people Iove the most. Should I run away to him? Or stay with my overly-protective parents?Just wondering what anyone else would choose.

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Answer #1

Long distance relationships aren’t that bad… I think you can wait a few more years until your older to be able to be with him cause running away is never a solution cause they will probably will be looking for you all over the country to find you… not only will you get in trouble but also the guy if they find out you went to him… I think you should think twice about doing anything… I hope you’ll find something and not do anything horribly wrong… good luck

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Answer #2

You are so young, and I KNOW the weight of the world is on your shoulders at this time in your life but running away with him is a very bad idea.I know right now you may not want to hear it and I also know you will never believe it but there will be many other guys in your life as you grow older. Things just seem much more intense tight now. I use to HATE when people said to me, If I only knew then what I know now blah blah, however they couldn’t be more right when they say it. Now being 34 I look back and wish I had listened. Life is a long journey hunny, please stay home and Let it all play itself out. You have so much to still do, running away with no education, no money, no source of any real income, you will end up very sorry you didn’t give it time

Answer #3

Well if he’s 18 and he truly does love you, it would be easier for him to come to you than you going to him. You are still in school, and he either isn’t or is probably soon going to graduate. Don’t leave school and don’t leave your parents. If you do, who else can you turn to if God-forbid something happens to him. Let him come to New York, don’t make a young girl mistake by leaving everything behind in New York for him in Ohio. He might be your true love, who knows, but don’t force your hand if it is much easier for him too. Let him come to you.

Put the idea and see how he reacts to that. If he has interest in it then he might truly care for you. If he is just trying to get you down to Ohio away from everyone, it probably isn’t the best situation for you to put yourself in.

Answer #4

It would really help to know how old the guy is.

Answer #5

ahh not that big of an age difference hes 18

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