When you get hit on in a store, do you get offended or flattered?

I used to get offended when i was younger and was quick to curse the guy out, now that im getting older and have a kid and am not as tiny as i used to be…i have to admit. It makes me feel good to be noticed lol.

Answer #1

I’m young and i am flattered so I think it must depend on the person, hahah :)

Answer #2

It depends on who’s whistling at you ;) It’s not really a compliment if they’re not in your age-range

Answer #3

Yeah I have to go with her but useually I’m flattered

Answer #4

Usually after a whistle, an ‘oioi’ or a car horn it’s like ‘GTFO old perv’ but after i allow myself a little smile inside like, yay i’m having a pretty day (rare as they aree ;[ aha)

Answer #5

Depends on who’s hitting on me. If it’s like an unattractive old dude then hell no. But if it’s like a cute looking guy near my age then I’d be flattered. I like being noticed sometimes lol

Answer #6

I can’t stand when they whistle or like, ‘’Hey baby’’ I feel like saying: ‘’Look! I just wanna buy my damn cereal!’’. It gets annoying.. But if they were to hit on me in a respectful manner, then I would be flattered. I just don’t like the ‘’mmm fresh meat’’ kind of attitude from them. lol

Answer #7

Agreed…I keep gettin hit on by all ages & really dont like that… Like i was looking for a cell phone & the guy kept staring at my chest rather then making eye contact so I just left! Happened even at the damn groc store…like dude…I just want my damn groc ty for the compliment but I am really doing just fine w/o you makin googly eyes at me & trying to talk to me while choosing my damn vegi’s! :P Its like ok, look but dont stair that is like those creepy cartoons where the male see’s the female as some roast over a fire! ugh! Annoying as hell! :(

Answer #8

Usually flattered. Sometimes I get offended though. Just depends on what the guy says.

Answer #9

I know this is mainly for girls but, I can’t really see myself doing that to a girl, I’ll talk to her, but I won’t whistle at her. That’s just a bit disrespectful, and those type of guys have their minds elsewhere, not in their heads.

Answer #10

It’s always some older guy. Ever since I was 14 it was always someone at least 15 years older than me. I am very rarely amused.

Answer #11

It usually depends on how they hit on me. If they’re being respectable, I have no huge issues with it. I’d be flattered. If they’re being big pervs, though, it just ticks me off. A grocery isn’t the time or place for pervism. xD It’s generally not a place I’d expect to be hit on, though.

Answer #12

Offended where I live now bc most people are married where I live. And its very obvious i’m not a soldier so I would be married to one. So when I get hit on at the px or anywhere on post it makes me mad.

Answer #13

if the Army wanted soldiers to have wives they would have issued them one!!! hehehe

Answer #14

It depends on how old they are. Like if they’re around my age and they say something nice or whistle that’s fine but if they’re an adult i get creeped out and feel very uncomfortable. But most adults don’t call out they just stare which is just plain creepy

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