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His sister hates me

My boyfriend sister hated me for some reason she blames me in every actions that my boyfriend do, she email me that have some words that hurts and she tell me not to visit my boyfriend at their house, she had email me like 2007 and I never reply then she email me again saying how she hate mo her brother and that she will never going to like me, I never did anything to her so I replied back but I think from what I did she hated me more, she was saying she is only concern to me but I dont see it that way, what I replied back to her is about I am not the one who is making my boyfriend’s decision but then she just said more mean words to me. And I think when I replied back I have said some mean words to her I feel bad but I’m not sorry because I was just replying to what she said to me. Can you please tell me did I made mistake on emaling her back…

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Answer #1

She’s probably had her brother to herself for a long time and is jealous of your relationship. Some family members dont like sharing others - It’s certainly true in my case.

Answer #2

Your boyfriend might be one of those people that will blame others for things not even knowing it can cause a problem (to cover his own a*s in times of need) so sister see’s that and thinks its something you did, blaming you for it all the same.

Or she feels threatened you are doing something wrong to him, never had a sister so im not sure how that works, I mean I have a older brother that only talks to me when he needs his computer fixed :P

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