Hiding from whats real

i’ve been in that situation before but when you do that you just hurt yourself especially if you really like this guy!! like i was like that and i was scared so i ended it with him and now i regret it !!! you have to take a risk every once in a while

Have you told him what you want in the relationship, or what your looking for? You need to communicate with him, it’s important. Don’t be pushy about your feelings though. Just tell him in a nice casual way that you are looking for a more stable realtionship. Most woman build a wall thinking they are protecting themselves, but in reality they are making themselves more likely to get hurt, because they are just going along with whatever the man wants, and are fine with it. You will never know what you have unless you communicate in a non-emotional manner. P.S- Don’t pour out your feelings to him, just tell him what kinds of things he does makes you happy.