Want to show him that I love him

I also agree with angelfire, you are very young honey, that’s illegal, he could get in heaps of trouble..

Being that your ONLY 14, you need to know that sex does NOT equal love! You dont have to be physical to show love. People demonstrate love by being there for each other, solving problems together, sharing hard times as well as good times, helping each other grow, and by being patient with each other.

I agree if you love him then its a decision thats up to the both of you.if you dont want your parents to know…they dont have to…age doesnt matter…im 15 and my stepmom is 10 years older than me..

Pretty much every 14-year-old thinks they’re deeply in love but how often is that really the case? I don’t mean to discourage you but it honestly barley EVER happens, especially these days. If you truly “love” each other then you should be willing to wait till you’re both legal adults.

Angelfire2708 is right. Sex does not equal love. At 14, even 19, hormones rule and distinguishing between love and hormonal impulses is impossible. Stick to holding hands and kssing, but stay away from sex. Sex is normally an emotionally, deeply bonding experience. You become emotionally attached to that person and break-ups can have life-long consequences to your self esteem, your self image and your ability to relate to the next guy your date - and there will be a next guy.