What if my boyfriend is kind of ugly?

this guy asked me out today and I said yes then my friend told evey and then they told me they though that hes was ugly and now that ithi k about it h is kind of ugly=•p

Answer #1

I really dont think this question is coming from a 28 yr old woman. Sounds more like middle school!

You dont have sex with a boy just because he asked!!! He just asked you out! Do you not have any respect for yourself? This boy does NOT love you. He doesnt even like you! If he did, he wouldnt be pushing you for sex! He isn’t treating you like a person, but as an object. Your body should not be shared with just anyone who treats you nicely, even if you really like him. Rather, you should save that kind of intimate physical connection for a guy who proves by his actions over a LONG time - that he truly loves you and respects your feelings and wants to be together with you for the long-term. Young relationships DONT last. Trust me, its so much easier to let go of a relationship once its over if sex wasnt involved!

This boy is only using you, and will dump you when he gets what he wants off you. Dont be naive, and foolish to think that just because a boy wants to have sex with you, he likes you… because he DOESNT!

Answer #2

who cares if hes ugly. As long as he sweet and caring. Looks arent that important. And Im not just saying that because I look like the taj mahal? (first thing that came into my head)

Answer #3

well, I doubt that you would have said yes to him if YOU thought he was ugly. I’ve been through that problem thousands of times. For the first month of my relationship with my baby daddy I refused to be seen in public with him, but truth was I really liked him, I was just afraid of what other people thought. We ended up dating him for two years, and having a kid.

Answer #4

thanks but I did think he was cute now that people say hes ugly I really think he is ugly he really loves e not like no no love help sob,sob

Answer #5

looks are not everything, itsnt it better to have a guy who is not so good looking but will treat you right, rather than having a goodlooking guy who wont, and yeah sometimes you can get both! but every one is beautiful in there own way inside and out, dont listen to your friends , some of my mates have sed the same sorta thing bout my boyfriedn but to me hes beautiful! xxx

Answer #6

so I sud have sex with him because he asked lil_pixie lost password made new profile

Answer #7

Don’t be so preoccupied by looks. They mean nothing. At least he won’t be busy admiring himself in store windows :)

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