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Can I still get pregnant if he uses a condom?

So theres this guy and I’ve’e known him since 6 grade and now im in 8th so im 13 years old. We went out in 6 grade for about a month and we broke up because he would flirt with many girls behind my back, and we dated in 7 grade for like 1 month and 2 weeks but I cheated on him.

We both feel the same way about each other I still have strong feelings for him And before the second time we went out we were dating other people But we both agreed its not the same

But we aren’t going out And for now I think its best that way.

And we want to have sex

So im wondering Can I still get pregnat if he uses a condom or what is there for protecion? And I cant get birth control or anything like that

So can you please just anser my question And not tell me not to do it Because I’ve’e been thinking about this for like a year And im think im ready and he’s definatley the guy I want to lose my virginity to

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Answer #1

I would advise you to wait a bit more untill your 100% mentally ready especially since your not going out because if he decides to break if off later youll need to deal with that and what youve lost so do wait a bit longer id say, and have a really long hard think about all of this also use that time to learn about prengancy, contraception, sti/stds and birth control knowledge is power…and the more you know the less likely youll make mistakes/ regrets, or screw up your plans for the future, with an unwanted baby for example to answer your questions though there are MANY different types of protection condoms however are the only ones that will protect against both pregnancy and stds if used right…they wont work if there old, expired, been sitting in a wallet for over a year, or have tears, rips or holes in them and yes, you can go on birth control there are quite a few different types of birth control but I suggest you talk to your mum about all this if shes a good mother shell at least want to to have safe sex the common form is the pill but it does come with side effects that youll also need to think about

Answer #2

you know I could tell you that your too young and what not. But the bottom line is that your gunna do do what you want to do. I am always one to promote safe sex. I would strongly advise you to use a condom. And if it’s your first time take is slow. Don’t let him get too excited. It won’t be good for you.

Answer #3

Im sorry to say but you are only 13 and you should wait, because both of you guys are to young to be having sex and it could only be something temporary if you were to have sex. Im not exactly saying not to have sex with him, but if you are sure that his your love of your life and want to be the rest of your life with him then do it but remember theres always consequences. but if you think his only going to be a temporary boyfriend then just wait before you regret it. because you are only a virgin once.

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