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I want to have sex with this guy and I really like sex but I’ve only slept with two guys and got herpes which is uncurable and neither of them knows who has it.and I know if I tell this guy he will get freaked out and wont have sex with me (but hes moving anyway but we still might have a chance)and I know he’s kind of a wh ore and who knows he may have it already so should I have sex with him???my friend told me I deserve too and guys have done a lot of bad things to the girl race anyway but im only 16 im young having to deal with an adult thing just because of two guys. should I go ahead and do it…we would use protection and everything..
I’ve only slept with two guys and got herpes>>Obviously you havent learned your lesson! Do you know what a condom is? Are you having sex with guys just because you “like” them, and you’re hoping that by sleeping with them they will like you back? Sex isnt a game. It comes with serious consequences as you have found out.
im only 16 im young having to deal with an adult thing just because of two guys.**>>Dont blame the guys Hun, you chose to spread your legs without using protection…that was YOUR decision! Not once, but with two different boys. Its called learning from your mistakes. First off, sex should be shared between two loving people involved in a long, trusting commited relationship, not with random boys!
He wouldnt know it usually doesnt show up on guys and I doubt he would blame it on me.>>Own up to your stupidity, and tell him. He deserves to know! He most likely wouldnt touch you…Just because the guys you had sex with didnt tell you, doesnt mean you have to stoop to that level and spread your disease around to every Tom, Dick, and Harry!!
Ask him if he has herpes or any other STD. If he asks you, you have to tell the truth. Think about how he would feel about you after he got herpes from you. To tell the truth I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t think to kindly of it.
that would be mean if you didnt tell him, also you can still get herpes even when you use a condom
Just think to yourself if you really want it. if you and he does and you use protection and are the legal age then go ahead
He wouldnt know it usually doesnt show up on guys and I doubt he would blame it on me.
Using condoms the right way is important to make sure you are protected!!
yeah and I just cant tell him I have it though.
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