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Should I believe that she's cheating on me?

Hi I dont know what do do, I’ve been told on a few occasions by a few people that my girslfriend is cheating on me. I dontknow weather or not to believe them but it all ties in with when she wont answer her phone etc so I would assume this is true, many times I hve thought about ending it but I am just scared of ending up lonely for the rest of my life! I really do love her but this among other things really makes me want to end it, yet I can never bring myself do doing it.

Other things thatreally annoy me is that she’ll say shes going out for an hour and not come home until early hours of the morning, and also for example we arranged to go ice skating today, she decided to go to watch the rugby match and then arranged we would go aftwerwards. So I was like “yeah fair compromise” then a text im not ready yet, pick me up in half hour.. then again and again.. im just fed up of this happening, I am always being let down and it hurts. I never let her down, always keep my promies, I really do treat her like a princess, and then most times the next morning she will be all appologetic etc. Please someone help, I dont expect her not to have a life outside our relationship, but why ignore my calls, ignore me, not do what she says she will?

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Answer #1

if you feel this way you should alrdy be broken up with her. everyone is afraid of being lonely. but if she treats you this way and your fed up with it then why deal with it more? your just causing urself more pain and confusion. and im sure that u’ll meet someone who’s so much better and wont treat you as badly.

Answer #2

I’m not sure if shes cheating on you but it is a possible chance. However, when I used to ignore my boyfriend’s calls it was mainly because I was just tired of him always wanting to know where I was and he was getting to the annoying stage.

I’ve told people not to fear break ups because they make you stronger. Out there, there is someone better for you.

Answer #3

I’ve got no problems with her going out to be honest with you, maybe I didnt word things right. I dont like being told one thing and then being ignored when I try to call her to arrange to pick her up for example at the time we said we would, she will just ignore me until the next day. I dont mind where she goes, and really dont mind who or where she goes, im pretty easy going like that. But I just feel like I do everything I can for her, and then get treated like dirt in return. I just dont know what to do.. Yeah I really shouldnt fear a breakup but I do. I guess as I mentioned previously I fear being lonely, and as all my mates have moved away to uiversity, or settled down had a child etc, I just dont know how I would manage, I dunno maybe I just sound a little odd :S

Answer #4

I DONT KNOW IF your GIRL IS CHEATING ON you BUT SOMTIMES WHEN MY BOYFRIEND CALLS I HANG UP OR DONT ANSWER EITHER CAUSE IM TIRED OR DONT FEEL LIKE TALKING TO NO ONE. BUT THEN WHEN I FEEL BEETER I CALL HIM AND WE TALK AND WE UNDERSTAND EACHOTHER HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM BUT PROBABLY THATS WHAT your GIRL IS UP TO SHES JUST BUSY ! you SHOULD TALK TO HER AND GET THINGS FIX .YA DONT BRAK UP WITH HER WITHOUT TALKING TO HER OKAY ! HOPE I HELP U

Answer #5

Not odd at all! If shes treating you like dirt I’d dump her. Everyone hates break-ups and she probably does too,but if you feel things are getting to the dark side of the relationship then maybe she is planning on breaking up as well.

She probably treats you like this because she knows you won’t leave her because your afraid to be alone [She knows your weakness].. I’m sure if you make the first move and break up she’ll be shocked and MAYBE even try to come back to you.

You DON’T need her; go out and have fun. Find someone who actually cares you’ll be suprised its not that hard. Also don’t be in a hurry to settle down like everyone else, you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship that is based on false feelings. You still have time, find someone who is worth it.

Answer #6

ok I recomend yuh to just talk to her itsz either shesz cheatin on you, busy, gettin over you

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