Help! we still have the spark, but he has a girlfriend.

there is this guy that i like. and we’ve liked each other before. we have so much in common and i have so much fun when im around him. (this was like 3 months ago) my friend would sometimes talk to him on aim, and one time they kind of got in an argument. she then started to tell me all this negative stuff about him, and i stared to loose interest in him. then 3 months or so passed, and i started to like him again. but then i found out that he has a girlfriend for like 2 months! i ws so sad. but the other day we like talked for a while and hung out and we still have this little spark that never went away. i dont know what to do! should i still like him even though he has this girlfriend? or should i just move on and try to be his friend…this is just a dilema! boys are so confusing :)

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You’re asking if you should still like him? In my experience, you can’t really control who you like, if you do you do and if you don’t you don’t. You could probably try to avoid letting yourself like him, but if you feel a spark between the two of you it sounds like you already like him again. I wouldn’t come between a guy and his girlfriend, it’s a common morality issue. If he’s taken, he’s taken- simple as that. He must like his gf if he’s going out with her, I’d just stay friends and keep it that way (or until he’s single.) good luck

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