Girlfriend wants to marry me

my girlfriend who is 14 wants to marry me when we finaly old enough. I asked her if she was serious and she was. I dont want to marry anyone yet and I am moving to a different country. how should I tell her these things without completly crushig her.

Answer #1

just break it to her gently but it is kinda messin wiv a girls mind if you know your gunna move to a different country she has obvs fallin in love wiv you and you r now moving away you shud have broke it off as soon as you knew you wer going it wud of been less suffering 4 her , and if she is like that mayb she is a bit ova excited mayb your her 1st boyfriend gud luk !

Answer #2

lol its possible I know a couple who were together since 14 now their 30 and still together..

the sooner you tell her the better

Answer #3

shes 14!! this cant possibly be taken seriously im sorry. I would tell her that you do care for her and about the relationship you two share, but how could you be so certain what the future holds for either of you.

Answer #4

just break it to her gently but it is kinda messin wiv a girls mind if you know your gunna move to a different country she has obvs fallin in love wiv you and you r now moving away you shud have broke it off as soon as you knew you wer going it wud of been less suffering 4 her , and if she is like that mayb she is a bit ova excited mayb your her 1st boyfriend gud luk !

Answer #5

I agree, 14 is way too young to be thinking about marriage but ya. Besides that, first off, you gotta talk to her in person. None of that on the phone stuff thats stupid. Second, the sooner the better is also true. You need to tell her how you feel about the way you feel on marriage and if you love her (honestly, that’s a BIG word) then figure out if you wanna try the long distance thing. I’m getting the feeling that you don’t wanna try it. I’ve done it, it doesn’t work. Then make sure she knows that it’s not her fault. Some girls can be very emotional, exp. at 14 because they think they gunna be with their first guy forever and that doesn’t happen.

Answer #6

how did I send it twice?? lol

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