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How to assure him that I'm fine with doing this?

well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and he fingers me and feels me up and I give him handjobs… my first question is how do I asure him that I am ok with us doing these things. he is really sweet and asks me all the time if I am really ok with us doing these things but I want him to know I am really ok with it I tell him I am but he stiill asks all the time… my 2nd question is is it normal to do sexual stuff like this almost every time we are alone… my 3rd questions is where can we go further like sex wise. my boyfriend wants to go down on me and I want him to also but im afraid that someone might walk in, when he is fingering me he just sticks his hand down my pants and there is a blanket incase neone walks in… where can we go farther thanx ~kaitlyn~

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Answer #1

fair questions. Your boyfriend sounds like one of the good patient types that wont rush you so thats a good sign you got yourself a good guy.

When he keeps asking if you are ok…maybe say babe…im ok you dont have to keep asking trust me…it feels really good! and it will boost his ego, and maybe tell him if im not ok or you do hurt me one time I will let you know about it.

It is normal to do these things all the time when your alone, it sounds like you both live with your parents so your trying to do as much as you can while you can which is fair enough. As long as the relationship isnt based around fooling around all the time no worries there.

And if you want to go further but your afraid your parents will walk in or something maybe stand behind the door, stay quiet so you can hear if someone if coming. If you want him to go down on you wear a skirt so if you have to quickly cover up you can, just some ideas…

Answer #2

umm do you parent or his ever leave you two alone.. another good place is if you have a friend who also has a boyfriend if you four all could hang out at someones house.. I mean someones parents cant ALWAY be home.. dont worrie you’ll find a place :D

Answer #3

well vickie sweetheart I would wait for them to leave but im not aloud to have a boy home when they arent… thanx for the advice everyone ~kaitlyn~

Answer #4

I have had people walking in so I know how embarrasing it is! I think that it is good to just do it when you have the chance, like when people leave the house. I also think that your boyfriend might think that he is pressuring you to do this stuff and he cares about you and wouldn’t want to hurt you so mayb that is why he is asking, let me know how it goes lol

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