Help! need to do something special! answer soon! Thx!

I am an expert at doing special or romantic things, but I don’t know him like you. Think back to the time you spent together and try to remember ANY special little thing that he talked about or liked doing. It can be as small as he likes cloth napkins instead of paper napkins. Try to think of as many things as you can and then bring them all together while you are with him.

It can be a song, a food or drink he really likes, anything that makes him comfortable or happy.

Also was there anything special that you two did together. If so, do it again and tell him how special it was when the two of you use to do it before.

Since your stepfather can’t stand the guy, you may want to meet somewhere else rather than at home. A big negative like those two meeting could mess up the whole thing.

Here is a little secret. The more senses that you can stimulate positively at the same time, the more positive and memorable the experience.

Sight: What is his favorite color? And wear it. If he likes heels, wear them or whatever he likes.

Hearing: Even if the music he likes is softly in the background, his subconscious will pick up on it.

Smell: This is the most under rated sense. If you know any smell (Apple pie, perfume, or anything) that he likes, have it be around the two of you.

Taste: This kind of falls in line with smell. Most bodies either crave salt or sugar and chocolate can really get the chemicals flowing in some peoples brains. When I have an important meeting, I go to this Italian bakery and pick up some salty sweet chocolate snacks to have with fresh coffee. It is amazing how much better a meeting goes when you tantalize the taste buds of everyone there.

Touch: You know best where he may like to be touched. If nothing else reach out and touch his hand or arm when talking to him.

Good luck and I hope it works out for the best,

Steven