Help!!! My boyfriends acting wierd!!!

Ok so lately everything has been great with my boyfriend, the other night we had a fight but it was no biggie and we made up and everything was ok. Then today I called him and he told me he had 2 call me back. So he did and hes all what did you want? I thought that this was a rather rude thing to say to your girlfriend of about 5 months and then im like I have 2 have a reason 2 call? And he goes well you should, what did you just want 2 tlk? And so I told him the reason that I had called, because I was sad and he said o. Then he tlkd 2 me 4 a few minutes when his mom made him get off the phone. But the whole time we tlkd he was very mean, almost hostile in fact. It was really wierd, also I messaged him that I loved him and all he said was dido. Hes never said that before, the thing is that he seems to think this is all very funny. He seems almost amused that he is continually pissing me off, I told him that he was acting wierd and all he said was o really and he sounded all happy. I don’t know hes acting very strange he was really nice 2 me yesterday and then today hes being a jerk. He once admitted 2 me that he thought it was funny 2 make me mad so im wondering if thats all it is or if I should be afraid that something is wrong. I love him with all my heart, and he says that he loves me all the time. Hes just acting really strange, what do you think is going on and what should I do? Please help!

Answer #1

I don’t know you people are scaring me lol but thanks 4 the advice. God I hope thats not whats happening I love him 2 much

Answer #2

Well me and my girl friend get into arguments also. and it usually gets made up. I just say things mesing around but I guess some of it offends her. but anyway, if its hurting you and making you sad then tell him, and if that doesnt work then make him fell kinda scared. Trust me if he really loves you he’ll worry about you.

well hope I helped somewhat =]

Answer #3

Yeah well its just that this is all out of the blue, cus we had the fight on friday night, made up friday night and he was being very nice 2 me yesterday. And then 2day he was being mean, and he just seems amused by the whole thing like he thinks its a game and what do you mean scare him? o and thanks 4 the advice

Answer #4

Oh jesus, this is like a repeat of my ex boyfriend of almost a year. Except he thought it was sexy to piss me off. Well, last he ended up telling me his feelings had changed and doesn’t feel the same anymore. He was acting strange and I called him out on it and he didn’t think he was acting weird. But then one day he said “Well, I think it’s because I’m starting to feel different.”

Answer #5

Yeah I did everythings ok he was just stressed we tlkd everything out and we are ok :)

Answer #6

Well the only thing I advise to do his confront him and have a serious talk… let him know how you feel

Answer #7

OK I dont want to scare you but it sounds to me that he is being a jerk because he wants you to break up with him… he may not want to break up wit you so hes trying all the things he can to get you to break up wit him. this is just a guess so dont make this your final decision. Im sorry that he is being such an asshole you should go off on him in my opinion I know that you love him and its hard to think about him dumping you or the other way around but that gives him absolutely no right for hhim to act like a jerk.. call him back and be very curt and stern and tell him exactly how you feel and even maybe throw in sumthing that might scare him and see what his reaction is… or be rude right back…give him a taste of his own medicine…but its hard to say. He might want you to be rude back so that he has a reason to break up with u. My advice is to call him talk to him and dont skirt around the issue. see exactly wassup and why he is act so mean and just pray from there

Answer #8

I dont think he wants 2 breakup with me because just yesterday he told me that he loved me, and I was going 2 go 2 his house. However that is 1 thing that im afraid of, but I’ve thought that before and tlkd 2 him about it and he was completely shocked that I would think that so I don’t know. He told me just last week that hed never breakup with me because he loved me 2 much, and he told me a couple of days ago when we were fighting and I asked him if he wanted 2 b with me he said that if he didnt hed just breakup with me he wouldnt stall so I dont think thats it. I hope thats not it. But like I said he did this once before he started acting all mean and stuff and he said that im sexy when im mad and that was the only reason he did it but I don’t know. Maybe I should ignore him 4 a couple of days? I don’t know I tried asking him if everything was ok and he said yeah everything was fine so I don’t know any other advice?

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