He's using girls for attention and Im hurt!

I need advice on how to stop feeling hurt by what this guy does. This guy I know uses girls for attention..it looks like he likes them because he touches them, hugs them, goes to parties with them (one girl in particular now) but since he’s single, all he’s looking for is attention..not a relationship, he told me. But he did this with me before (all the touching) and it hurts seeing him to this to another girl now and not me.

How do I get over this and stop feeling hurt when I see them together all the time!! HELP!!

Answer #1

If you cant handle seeing him with other girls, then you need to stop going to the same places he does. If you really want to get over him, STOP all contact!

Answer #2

Try to get involved with another guy. Maybe if he sees you with another guy he’ll get jealous, or maybe you can move on from the fact that he’s moving on.

Answer #3

Well, if this makes you feel better, I wouldn’t think anymore about him and move on with life. There are plenty of guys out there that are good and won’t use girls. I would also separate by hanging out at different places. You know that he’s moved on and found another girl which I can understand that would hurt. Forget about him, you don’t need users like him. He’s getting attention because he’s lonely and, he does that to enjoy the pleasure of touching girls which isn’t right to do but, that’s his motive. You could find someone that’s allot more decent then him and see if that’ll get his attention. Good luck.

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