help me be diplomatic with husband,s male chauvenistic friend

:) I know what you mean, it’s always easier for something to come from the outside!

Chin up, and good luck!

thanks you guys !! that was helpful… Sometimes when u’re stuck in somethin irritating you loose yr own rationality…I’ve lost my smile and am sure it bugs the hell out of my husband…

give the guy a break hes wit his buddy haven a good time and im sure he dosent have it very often and if he drinks a lot when he gets back tell him that his friend is a bad influience and you dont want him to see him if he keeps it up

Its only a visit, he will be gone soon

lol, ohk, your husband is an adult. If he hasnt turned into a male chauvinistic pig yet, despite all these years of watching all the pigs around him, he’s probably not going to any time soon…

Really this boils down to picking your battles, if they’re going to be gone soon, figure out if it is worth fighting with him over it… If they arent, then have a heart to heart chat with your husband about respect and courtesy…

As for his friend. I know, it bugs the hell out of me too. My friend is married to one (he’s I suppose about a step better). But what to do right? There are people like that in this world, and you cant change it. And I know it hits at your own sense of self, but just remember, that because he thinks women are inferior, does not mean they are… Just that he’s got a tiny little brain that would explode if you tried to make him see differently. So dont let his perceptions get to you…