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HELP!! Best Friens is in love and had bad ideas

My friend is 15 going on 16… HE loves this girls hes with and sadly shes has to leave with her family and they don’t want to be apart. She has a history of running away and he hasn’t but he just as crazy. He has come to me for help but what can you say to this. I’m 17 an I know that this love yea it might seem to them for ever but in the end it only last a year or less. He as plans of running away and even getting her pregnant then he will be with her forever. Hes running his life. I need advice to talk with him and to change his mind or help him come to a better decision.

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Answer #1

strap him to a gurney and smack him. continue to beat him until he has some sense in his head.

tell him that he should stop being such a dramatic piss b1tch, because if it was “true love” (idiots) then he can make it work in a long distance relationship. running away and getting her pregnant is the dumbest thing I have ever heard in my entire life.

..I’m serious about the gurney though.

Answer #2

I think right now he just needs you to be understanding about the love thing but mostly needs you to talk some sens into him. Sit him down and tell him that as his friend you just want to try to understand why he would do this when he has other options (ex.: long distance relationship, waiting until his 18 to marry and live with her). The most important thing is to ask him practical questions like where will he sleep? where will he get the money? how will he live with the police searching for him? what will he do about school? how will he clothe and feed himself? what will he feel every day knowing that his parents, whole family and friends are worried and sad for him? If this doesn’t help then try talking about what kind of life he plans on giving to his girlfriend and future child. Just try to talk it through with him. This will help him understand that running away has consequences and that he should be smarter then just running away from problems (they fallow and create more!). If you think he’s really serious about it then I’d talk to your parents or his or a trusted adult about it so they can deal with the situation.

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