Is it normal for a girl to fall out of love?

She told you that she wanted to break up and keep you as friend so she could keep her options open if she decides to change her mind. Thats what we always hope when we say that. But in reality, exs as friends don’t work as well as you hope. I guess I always got bored with guys after a certain time frame and fell out of love because it was routine, I knew what to expect. There was no thrill. Thats just me, ,I can’t explain it for her though. Everyone is different. I’m just explaining from my perspective. Guys fall out of love too. And no, I don’t think she would be considered a slut. I think the word slut should be reserved more for girls/women that are very sexually active. ‘ The whole friends thing must be akward though. If she broke your heart why put yourself through more pain and torture?

DEar slashman, The most crucial part of your story is that she did it again after you. So it has nothing to do with you or female habits. (IT IS ALL HER) she is the one with the problem and this behaviour belongs to her. There is no way you could have know this was going to happen unless you spoke with her previous boyfriend whom I’m sure shares your pain. It’s one of those things you have to pick yourself up dust your self off and learn. We call it young love because the young tend to fall head over heals as you say quickly sometimes setting themselves up for such things. YOu will eventually learn to tread lightly in the beginning of relationships and get to really know someone before you totally give up your heart. The beginning of some very hurtful but beneficial lessons for you. Sue…good luck

I agree with sue, its not a female thing its her thing… she prob falls in love but isn’t really in love and one day she realises it and ends it all and moves on to the next guy… happens with girls as well, men do it to them, but its not men its not women its the person… unfortunately some people love to be in love.. but one day you will meet someone who will really love you… your time will come.