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I'm scared it will hurt or not fit

Okay. So there’s this guy that I hang out with a lot and he wants to have sex with me. I’ve been around his pen*s a lot, but we haven’t actually had sex. I want to, but I’m a virgin. He has a 8-9 incher and I’m scared it will hurt a lot or won’t like…fit. Lol. Help??

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Answer #1

I agree with mandyloo, why loose your virginity to a friend if your not in a relationship with someone you love?

Answer #2

You said a guy you are hanging out with - not a guy you are dating. Don’t just go and give your virginity away to some friend. Your first time should be when your ready, when your in a relationship, and you feel a strong connection with that person. There’s no such things as “not fitting”, the vagina is a muscle and is meant to stretch for sex and childbirth. The first time can be uncomfortable though at first. It’s usually not as great as people expect it to be. Take your time and don’t rush into losing your virginity with some random guy.

Answer #3

I am so going through the same thing! I’m a virgin, and he is big, and we have discussed sex. He is an 8 incher. I would asssume to just tell him to go easy and not penetrate completely. First times are different for everyone. Some hurt a lot, others only feel a pinch. Just go slow and easy. I’m sure he will understand.

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