Why the hell would this chick tell me these things?

I kinda doubt that. From what I’ve seen they seem to have more of a brother sister relationship. I heard she already has a boyfriend and I get the vibe that she wants me and him to get togethor seeing her reaction when she once had mistaken us for being a couple.

OMG u kno wut….. the same things happened 2 me. this freakin idiot girl tell me all of this UNEssecary stuff about my boyfriend 2 me bcuz they r “brother and sister” apparently. this chick in ur problem is probably just crazy bcuz shes the 1 who wishes she cukd loose her virginity and shes basically sick. lolz

Well, to me…it sounds like she has a bit of a crush on his herself. She has been best friends with this guy for a very long time, and perhaps she has developed feelings for him…that are more than just “friendly” feelings. Maybe she is too scared to let him know she likes him…or scared that he doesn’t feel the same way, which is why they are still just friends.

Now that another girl (you) has shown interest in him…she feels threatened, and probably jealous. She doesn’t want some girl stealing him away before she gets a chance with him. She is probably just telling you those things to discourage you from liking him…hoping you will forget about him because of that.

What she is telling may or not be true, you never know. The only way to find out is to talk to him about it, and ask if it’s true…without accusing of course.

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Well so far she hasn’t discouraged me but I guess you never know. It does make sense what you say. I’ll probably bring it up to him if I ever get the chance to talk to him next semester. Thanks!

No problem. I could be wrong, I mean…I’m not in her head, so I don’t know. That is just how it seems to me. :]

Then again I guess you never know.

since they’re best friends it could be that if he dates you she will feel left out…and she doesnt want that to happen. and she could just be making up that stuff to try and get you to back off….but I wouldnt if i were you, if you like him tell him :) guys like it when girls are honest about their feelings!

I know. Like I said it doesn’t bother me. Besides I just gave him my number today.

She’s either traying to keep you away from him because she likes him or she is traying to warn you there are bad things about him?

she might be jealous.or get thee feeling you are trying to take him away.

I agree with ever one else on this one but it dose not make sens to me, maybe its because I am a guy, but the last time I hard is that (I am sorry if I make any one angry) most girls have the window of opportunity, if you become a friend it stays that way for a long time. but hay dont get mad at em that is just my thought.

Wait what? Sorry I don’t think I understand what you’re saying.

never mind that. If you really like this guy, then don’t care about her, just go and date this guy.