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Should we get married if my brother doesn't like him?

my boyfriend is 19 and I am 15 and he asked me to marry him i said yes but my brother dsoesn’t like him and he doesn’t know about the question if him and my mom did know they wouldn’ty allow me to see him, what do I do?

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Answer #1

First of all, you’re fifteen. You shouldn’t be dating a nineteen-year-old.

Second of all, you’re fifteen. You shouldn’t be (seriously) thinking about marriage.

If your brother is older than you, he probably has a good reason for disliking your boyfriend. Your boyfriend sounds immature for his age. No sane nineteen-year-old boy asks his high school girlfriend to marry him, not really. For that matter, no sane nineteen-year-old boy would date a fifteen-year-old girl to begin with.

More importantly, can he even support himself? I personally wouldn’t marry someone who has no college degree and who doesn’t have a stable job, but that’s just me.

Answer #2

It doesn’t matter on your age difference. But you ARE DEFINITLEY TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED. Even your 19 year old boyfriend is too young. Wait a couple years and THEN get married. Well, more like, wait 10 years and then get married. And most likley, your brother doesn’t like your boyfriend because you’re 15 and he’s 19. Just make them try to get to know each other.

Answer #3

what is a grown man asking a child to get married for… yes you are a child and he is an adult and that sort of thing is frowned upon as Sue says… you have lots of years ahead of you to enjoy your life , why would you want to even think about getting married??? and yes if you have had sex with this man then he could end up in jail.

Answer #4

Dear whitehead, Your parents can charge your boyfriend with statutory rape because of your age difference. You are not really in a position to argue the point. If they don’t want you to see him…don’t. He could end up in jail. I know you don’t want to hear this but a 19 year old dating a 15 year old implies that he is very immature and needs to grow up. Our society frowns on age difference of this type until you are 18. Then if you wish to date some one 4+ years older it is not a legal or social issue. Sue…good luck

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