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Is he going to break up with me for talking about myself?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little bit more than a year now.. and he told me last night that I talk a lot about myself. since day 1. what does that mean? how does he feel about me now… is that an excuse to break up?

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Answer #1

Dear fau, Your boyfriend gave you some constructive criticism and now you feel he’s ready to dump you? It might be that he is getting very comfortable talking with you and is trying to increase the communication between the two of you. A good responce would be to thank him for his honesty and this will be something you’ll be working on in the future. Making great efforts to not talk about yourself so much. In a relationship there are some behaviours we may not like in our partner that doesn’t mean we don’t love our partner or we are planning to break up with them. Some people have a hard time dealing with constructive criticism…there is no one who is perfect and in every person there is room for improvement. Some things we can tolerate other things we mention. Perhaps you talk a lot about yourself because you find there isn’t enough conversation between the two of you otherwise. Start asking how his day was, what was the worst/best thing that happened to him today, plans for tomorrow etc. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

you should talk less about ur self and more about you guys.

Answer #3

tel him if he dont like it then get lost x

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