He isnt a virgin but I love him

Well my boyfriend isnt a virgin anymore. And everything I think about when were kissing or hugging is him having sex with her. He told me that I was the first girl that he loved. And I feel special. But sometimes I wish that he culdve gave me everything!…sometimes I wonder why he did it with her if he didnt love her. I get upset thinking of him with that girl. Jux knowing he gave her everything. Help! =[

Answer #1

Sex is not that big of an issue. He may have gave some physical attraction towards her and in a way, used her. But he has given you his heart and now you are his life. She is no where in the picture so what are you being crazy about. His eyes are only set on you. Relax and figure out if you are mature enough to handle a future with someone who is moving faster than you.

Answer #2

Well, if you want to continue your relationship, your going to have to let “him giving his virginity to another girl” go. The bottom line is he can’t get it back. Whats done is done. So stop dwelling on it. However, if it contines to bother you, maybe you should rethink your current status.

Answer #3

Don’t of him of not being a virgin is bad cause only thing that happens to guys when they lose their virginity is they want more and learn more so it is rather a good thing so he knows what he is doing when you two ‘get at it’. Just remember that it is the girl that changes phsyically after having sex for a first time no the guy so it’s like having the same thing over and over but no to him.

Answer #4

did he have sex with her while you guys were together?

Answer #5

Dear alwaiizxxforever, This is something you are going to have to deal with…if you can’t then I suggest you go for counselling. You will probably find yourself on the reverse of this someday. You will more then likely have a few partners prior to settling down and getting married yourself. We all have a past to deal with and perhaps he was a little quick in revealing his past to you. If you can’t get over this you will no doubt force a breakup. Sue…good luck

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