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He Fingered Me Then Told Me He Had A girlfriend Whats Next For us!!

Its this boy and we started talking in the beginning of the school year, he was a senior and I was a freshman. He claimed he liked me and wanted to go with me etc. but I wasnt believing it. To me I found it hard to believe a senior would be interested in a freshman. Well we continued to talk all year and at the end of the semster during spring break he fingered me. The day after he told me he had a girlfriend and I was upset,but somehow deep inside I didnt care I still liked him but for some reason he continues to do me wrong. Next Year he’s going off to AAMU; should I just not talk to him anymore or should I just try to be his friend and nothing more???

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Answer #1

Don’t talk to him anymore. No freshmen in college should be fooling around with a sophomore in high school, period. He’s just using you for a little fine while he’s not messing around with older more experienced girls.

Answer #2

Hun, he wouldnt be a good friend, OR good boyfriend material. Hes a jerk who used you, and cheated on his girlfriend. Stay clear of boys that try & take advantage of you, and have girlfriends! If your not in relationship, dont let a boy do you like that.

Answer #3

well I’ve been here before. hes just using you. sorry but its true. if you really want him just leave him alone for awhile about it. dont text him or make any contact with him. if he wants to talk to you he will. dont let it effect you. if he doesnt contact you then you know all he wanted was to hook up and that shouldnt be a friend you want.

Answer #4

well if you like him fingering you let him, be friends with benifets, if he doesn’t want to, just plain just say “ok just friends then” and if he says no say “fine then bye!” make it sound like your mad and he’ll say ok friends with benifets. good-luck -your friend ivan. PS tell me how it goes.

Answer #5

anamedea101, obviously never had sex. why soo gross?

Answer #6

Okay, don’t let anymore guys finger you, it’s gross, secondly, just don’t talk to him anymore.

Answer #7

his friend

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