Have I found my true love?

I think im in love.. I know it sounds slightly dumb.. because you should just know when your in love.. but I’ve been hurt so many times in the past that im very careful about relationships. Anyway, I’ve know this guy for 4 months (I know its early days). I think he’s amazin.. we get on soo well.. I think about him everyday.. I can talk about anythin with him, we can chat for hours with out ever gettin bored. anythin can remind me of him, from shows on the tv about houses, to soppy romantic films. I see him a 3-4 times a week.. and even though he hasnt got much money he still makes all the effort to drive all the way across town to see me. he fones and texts me everyday, I really think he’s the one for me. theres one major problem, and im not proud of what im doing, but he’s got a girlfriend whos he’s been with for over 4 years, and he lives with her. I dont want him to split up with her for me, I just want things to happen how they should.

by the way he’s 29 and im 20

do you think im in love? and more importantly do you think he’s in love with me.

P.S. we dont have s*x. (I thought that was an important piece of info)

Answer #1

How would you feel if you were the gf, and he was seeing another girl on the side? This guy is NOT amazing. An amazing guy is one that is faithful, and respects his partner! He would not be going behind his gfs back, seeing, texting, calling another girl., and spending 1/2 his time with her. How do you know that if you and him ever got together, he wouldnt do the same thing to you? You need to have a serious talk with him, because this situation isnt healthy for either of you. Give him an ultimatum. Either he stays with his gf, and leaves you alone, or he leaves his gf, and you two pick up where they left off! (like a rebound) Do you think he is going to leave her that easily after being together for 4 yrs? Thats a long time, plus theyre living together. Heck, they may as well be married! To me you are crossing boundaries, that shouldnt be crossed. You need to step back, and really think this thing through.

If he is the one for you, then why is he with someone else?

Answer #2

ok AngelFire2708 my friend n her bf have been 2 gether 4 7 years and were in 8th grade u gunna sugest they get married 2 i meen c’mon b real

Answer #3

ok AngelFire2708 my friend n her bf have been 2 gether 4 7 years and were in 8th grade u gunna sugest they get married 2 i meen c’mon b real

Answer #4

ok AngelFire2708 my friend n her bf have been 2 gether 4 7 years and were in 8th grade u gunna sugest they get married 2 i meen c’mon b real

Answer #5

i think yall seem perfect 4 each other but watever u do dont be a homewrecker

Answer #6

It doesn’t sound like true love. It sounds like you have found a really close friend at best. Does his girlfriend know that you two spend so much time together? If no, then be very cautious. Like someone else said he could do the same thing to you. It seems like he really loves her if they have been together for four years, and he has taken the steps to be able to live with her. He may be just using you because he is scared that their relationship moved too fast. I mean do not make the mistake of trying to split them up. There are too many other good guys out their. You are still really young. I hope this helps.

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