has anyone ever been though somthing like this. help please

ok so this guy and I werent going out. but we were after football season.

so we always texted each other and talked at school. We hugged a lot. And every1 new that we were gunna go out. we have been doing this for about 2 months and he wanted me to go to his birthday dinner wit his family. (but I couldnt) he wanted me to meet his mom.

and he told me “I’m IN love with you but I do’nt love you yet..but im close to it.”

he asked if we should hold hands and I told him not untill me go out 4 real.

everything sounds good right? well I found out he was sending texts to another girl saying he wanted to “finger her”. ( I found out by one of my friends..he brother also likes me. so I dont no if she lied to me.) so I asked him about it and eveything blew up. we starting fighting and he sends me a text saying “my mom wants 2 no whats going on between us?” and I said “there never was a us and there will never be an us” and he was like “I was about 2 ask you out” and I said “I dont give a damn” and I told him that I was done fighting wit him and the last thing he said to me was “im not fighting..im just getting my ponit across.”

we havent talk 4 2 hole days so far.. will he text me..call me..ever talk to me again? people say he will because he was like in love wit me.. and I was really mad when I said all those things.

what do you think?..would he give up that easy. someone please I need so advice

thank you so much

Answer #1

well if you want things to happen you need to let him know that you still want things to move on and you didn’t mean wot you sed. you may need to swallow your pride and get on with it

Answer #2

hey, I have gone tho this same set up. TWICE by the same guy, well I didnt let him explain what was going on. I found out from the girl he was cheating on me with. We both told him at homecomming we knew it all.Let him explain his side of the story. I let him and now after 2 months of him begging and re-trusting him before I said yes to trying our dating one more time. just be carefull and watch what he dose. if he starts falling in to the same thing. just call him out on it nicely. just Make him EARN your trust back

Answer #3

and he told me “I’m IN love with you but I do’nt love you yet..but im close to it.”>>Loving someone can be viewed as a static, stable situation as when we love our parents, friends, etc. Being “in love” suggests an active process that is at the emotional forefront each day — typically progressing in a positive direction. I think he has his feelings backwards! He sounds like a player to me. I would bet that hes the lieing about the texting, not the girl!

Answer #4

you talk to him first if you really like himm

Answer #5

oh and he said that the fingering thing was not true

Answer #6

see, my problem is im hard headed

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