Hand on it

My boyfriend wants to just put him hand on my panties. I’d be just fine with that except he tends to want to go further. Like I think he wants to finger me once he thinks I like it but I don’t want him to yet. What should I do? Just let him do it? Or keep telling him no? Please help!

Answer #1

Tell him you don’t want to be fingered if he tries it on report him to the police.

Answer #2

Talk to him when he is not trying to do it, say that you’re not ready yet and want to slow it down a bit - NO do not let him just do it - If you’re not ready, then you’re not - as a good boyfriend he shouldn’t pressure you into something into you dont want to do!

If he respects you he’ll settle for what he already is lucky to have and not constantly ask for more:)

Hope he’ll understand!

Answer #3

No, definitely do not let him do it. if he does it without your consent then it is technically sexually abuse and a prosecutable offence. You are clearly not ready so explain that to him. It seems like he has little respect for your body or your feelings anyway…

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