How to keep my second boyfriend away from my first?

Dear rukia,

I am not to sure what you are going to do I personaly think that if you are going to backstab some one then you shouldn’t be going out with either one of them. How would you feel if they where doing what you are doing to them to you? Do you want that type of a relationship?

By your question I can tell that Honesty is and trust are not what you have placed value in when it comes to relationships…my main question for you though would be why not? That is what builds the best relationships when people are honest with eachother and know that they can trust eachother being FAITHFUL is all a part of that. Having two boy freinds is wrong to both of them and I think just messed up.

I think that you should really re-evaluate you Moral and Value system and then think about what you are doing rather then your self…also take in to consiterartion how you may be hurtting them and the impact that your choices may have on them given that they will at some point figure out what you are doing. ( People never get a way with it for long just take a look at the devorce rates)…your actions could very well hurt both of these guys though and I think that you should ask your self if that is right or not.

And if he does find out if he is smart he’ll dump you. I am not trying to be mean or anything or rude..but what you are doing is mean and rude. And then depending on your age can be a very curel thing. Some one could really love you and you could really hurt them.

I personally do not think that it is right to mess with peoples emotions like this. that is just what I think though.

Well have a nice night an I hope that you really do think about what you are doing.