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Had an affair

I have just cheated on my fiance again and she has said I will never be back to her I love her so much that I dont want it to end we have been together for 6 years we had probs in the relationship which I tried to talk to her about but was gettin no help from her in these problems it was a case of if I didnt like tough except it and this is why I think I had the affair

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Answer #1

I’m not going to scolled you or make you feel bad. As a grown man, you know what you did was wrong, you know that by having sex with another would hurt her. Your not in love with her, you have love for her. You are too used to being by her side. Six years is a very long time. It’s time to move on. Just let it go. From lifes experience, walk away. Your not only hurting her, your hurting yourself as well. Live your life. If you can’t settle down, then have fun. Be single and live each day as your last. Eventually she will find somebody, believe me. Chances are she’s had second thoughts about somebody else. We all do. Who knows, if you are meant to be, you’ll end up together in the end. Do your self and her a favor, Tell her the truth. The truth shall set you free. Don’t get me wrong though, you are a slutt. But hey, SLUTTS DO IT BETTER!!! (I had to miss spell to have in the log:)

Answer #2

I agree with the people on here. Don’t say that you love her because if you did, you would have NEVER cheated. Sorry to sound rude, but she can and will find a way better man than you if she finds out. Get couples counseling before you decide to get married if you want to work it out.

Answer #3

you disrespected your fiance, and had the nerve to have sex with someone other then her. if I were her I would have kicked you to the curb so quick. you’re lucky she’s even speaking to you. if you really did love her, you wouldn’t have cheated. you better be licking the ground she walks on from now on if you want to gain ANY trust or love back from her.

Answer #4

No matter what lame excuse you give to why you did it, it wont solve your relationship problems! In fact it only worsens them! You broke a trust & bond, and that isn’t something you can get back. Loving someone is NOT disrespecting them. You not only did it once, you did it twice! Totally unforgivable in my book!

Answer #5

You obviously dont love her if you can screw around on her! So sickning!! I hope she finds out and throws your butt out!

Answer #6

Guys like you irritate me. You want to have why our cake & eat it too. That isn’t what life is all about.. You are lucky that she is still w/you. Keep that pecker in your pants if you ever expect to have a relationship w/her. How would you like it if she did the same thing to you?

Answer #7

If you really love her, you wouldn’t have cheated on her more than once. Especially have had sex with other women.
She can do a whole lot better than you. I hope she finds a man that will respect her and treat her right.

Answer #8

your TOTALLY LAME ! your so disgusting… gah I wish she would find out and kick you out :/ I WISH YOU THE BADDEST OF LUCK

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