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I always make the first move when it comes to a guy

I always make the first move when it comes to a guy… I get inpatient if we are just laying there and we both are feeling one another why do they just sit there and not do anything I end up touching their hand and massaging it and what not then if I pull away to try and get him to inciate something he just continues to sit there but then I do the same thing and he holds my hand back and everything but doesn’t doing anything else like rub my back or put his arm around me or cuddle I end up starting it, kissing him first then he gets the idea… and starts participating… do you think I’m coming off easy or what?? I don’t want to be that type of girl or portrayed that way but guys are dumb and obviously if I’m making an effort to be close to you you think they’d do the same especially if they can sit there and text me and call me saying how they feel but can’t show it when we are together or in person…

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oh believe me I always make da first move and I think guys like it when they get ignored actually and if hes not making and effort why should u??? even if hes shy he’ll come to u, believe me after making soo many first moves you’ll regret some of them at one point

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