Guys only, do you shy away from women with kids?

Hey, maybe its just my self esteem & having a couple really bad relationships & getting hurt, but do guys really shy away from women with kids already? I sometimes wonder if I will ever find the right guy. The relationships I have been in didn’t go bad because of the kids, but I am just wondering if a man will shy away from a woman more if he knows she has kids. To me its a package deal & if they do, its their loss, but just wondering what men think. What do guys really want in a good healthy relationship(and be serious) ..I know what one of those answers may be, so whats next?? Lol

Answer #1

Its a package deal.. if The Dood really like;s you.. then the fact that you have a kid should notmake a difference.. but you must understand that it will frustrate the dood up to an extent.. specially if he wants to be alone with you and it does not or really seldom happens.. But most importantly.. NO MATTER how much you like or love the guys.. YOUR KID COMES FIRST.. ALWAYS.. No Exception.. If he starts with but its not my kid.. then he is not your boyfriend.. Finnished.. no further discussions.. But dont expect him to pay for the kids education etc.. but when it comes to going to the movies and that.. he sure as hell can pay for your child too.. Have a fabulous day..

Answer #2

I wouldn’t date you either…

Because currently, I don’t want kids… of my own, nor anyone else’s…

Answer #3

It depends on the guy… we’re all different…

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