Guys and marriage

well you no what keep on trying…set up another date…in a relationship der will b times things r rough and you just wanna giv up but you have 2 keep hanging on you kant giv up and don’t GIVE UP!! treat diz as a test, as an obstacle that both of you have 2 overcome in order 2 b w/ each other happily. hapiness doesnt just come by itself and KANT come that easy so work hard 4 it and let your loves guide you thru diz dificulty yall will make it 4 sure as long as yall keep holding on and trusting each other.

well you c you should also try 2 look at it his view…giv him sum time…hes probably thinking about it and when you think da time iz rite try 2 bring it up indirectly…don’t just come at it…slowly slowly tll him how important he iz in your life tll him your feelings…mayb comfort him hes probably going thru rough time. arrange a date or sumthin so yall kan tlk it out…n when he dose show up him tll him you no what?mayb we don’t have 2 rush thru things yet..im happy w/ just being w/ u…

GOOD LUCK!! I hope da will help u!! :)

Im 19… And I’ve actually tried that.. A few times… We were actually supposed to do that a last night but I couldnt get to his place.. Stupid vehicle issues…

n said “so you don’t have 2 hide your feelings, im wiling 2 listen and support you all da way”!

I think I can handle that (: Thanks a lot xakenzx im really excited for this weekend! So ill just give it a rest and not worry about all that then!

yea I understand…by da way you described da situation of your realationship…I think just enjoy da trip 4 now…don’t worry about it…giv it a lil rest let him think 4 a while…like you said hes been busy and workin so mayb you shouldnt keep pushin it…both of yall have gone thru lot I blieve so yall should just enjoy diz trip.don’t think about da “marriage” thing 2 much.just w8 until he wants 2 tll you his feelin, bt before that you should try 2 find da reason that caused him to go into that kind of state.ENJOY DA TRIP!! :)

Your 18, whats the hurry?

y not tlk 2 him.I mean dix iz a marriage after all. it involves 2 pplz. yall are gonna spend da rest of your lives 2gether so communicate w/ each other and find out. let him tll you his feelings himself. and even if he IZ scared of gettin married because of his parents situation, you should show him that its gonna b different between yall that it’ll definitely work out between yall.

For a while he was like.. Hinting at it and that he wants to and bla bla bla… But now he doesnt and I’ve tried talking to him about it but he wont answer my texts.. Hes at work and we dont live together… How do I talk to him about that without upsetting him or pushing him away from talking about it?

maybe hes not ready to get married hes only 20…??

Well were going for a suprise weekend trip this weekend so Im thinking when were gone ill ask him about it. I just dont know about how to talk about it with him because with his work lately hes gotta short temper and I really dont wanna piss him off because itll ruin the whole trip. I’ve tried texting him here and there about it but hes always working so he cant answer them and he gets home real late so I dont wanna bother him when hes trying to sleep you know? Weve gone through our fair share of rough times so im ready for pretty much anything I just hate it when we fight.