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Why does a guy want a picture of me in my swimsuit?

So this guy is like my brother but we are not at all related and he asked me for a picture of me in my swimsuit. I am shy and told him I don’t really want to and it sounds like he is forcing me. He then said: “Of course I am forcing you.” I asked him why he wanted such a picture, and I really didn’t understand why because he has a girlfriend and I am not skinny or so. I am average (bigger hips). He ssaid he would tell me when I send it and I didn’t send it and now he ignores me so I guess he will never tell me. So please, why do you think he wanted it, even when he has a girlfriend he can look at all the time??

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Answer #1

There are many reasons and all are wrong…If he is pushing you then he is not a friend,ignoring you as well…forget him,tell his girlfriend too…The controling perv deserves all he gets IMO.

Answer #2

You already got answers for this. But quite obviously this is just about your insecurity then. You like the feeling that some guy wants to see your body. He wants to see because he thinks you looks good. But the guy is a contrillibg jerk and not a friend at all and a crappy boyfriend. If he is willing to drop your friendship for a photo, he is just using you for your body. Stay clear of guys like these, you do not need compliments or the friendship of guys like these. Be confident in yourself.

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