Is this guy being friendly or is he interested in me?

I am working at a job part time. The guy I like, “John” He also works at this place but in a different department. The part time job I am working at ends this month so I wanted to start working the department he was in. So here’s the story… I saw him in the hall and went up to him and asked him if he likes working in his department. (this is the first time we ever spoke). Then i told him my position was ending and if I didn’t get a different job I was waiting on I was thinking about applying to the department he was in. So john told me about the job and he liked it. Then i asked him what year he graduated and I was just being friendly. Then I introduced myself and we shook hands and I smiled and left. Then… a week later I went to the manager/boss of his work department (I have never met her before) and told her I was interested in working at that job. We talked and she was thinking about hiring me. Then a week after that I went up to her again to follow up and the first thing she says is “John told me you talked to him the other day!” and she was smiling. …. SO that’s the story. Do you think this guy john likes me and is interested in me and that’s why he told his manager/boss about me or do you think he was being friendly?!?! and why? I just dont understand why she would bring up he talked to me and smile

Answer #1

Sound to me like he was being friendly because you were so friendly with him. He could also be interested in you. But be careful because if you do get hired in his department and you do start dating it can affect your work.

Answer #2

Yep he sounds interested :) Let me ask you if you think my guy is interested. He’s a bartender and I’m a host, and I was frustrated at a co-worker and told Jeremy how I felt. He laughed and said “I didn’t think a proper lady such as yourself was capable of such language” and he laughed. I told him it was just when it came to men. He laughed again and said well I will be more careful and gave me this flirty grin. I don’t know if its harmless flirting or if that was his way of showing interest… what do you think? lol

Answer #3

I think he may be harmless flirting but it could be more.. its hard to tell! why do you think my guy is interested?

Answer #4

hard to tell

Answer #5

hard to tell

Answer #6

He may have made you seem amazing to his boss just so you could be put in his department so he can know you better, or also seen as interested.

Answer #7

Well if i were you, i would not think too much of it. Guys can be pretty damn confusing, and i’d advice you guard your heart. I had somewhat of the same experience, and i really liked him, but he played on me. I had no idea he knew i liked him, and ended making such a fool of myself. Specially now that you might be working together, i think you should play hard to get. it kills them ;) Sure, be friends, but let him make the first move. And if he never makes a move, well then, you have your answer right in front of you. :)

Answer #8

I think Johns just a nice guy. Don’t read too much into little things. And if he does like you, he’ll let you know in a more obvious way than that.

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