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Guy friend and other friend of mine are "goingout'' now I lost two

Guy friend and OTHER friend of mine are “goingout’’ and I feel like I lost a valuable friendship with the guy: My friend (girl who is with guy friend)) and I were not getting along there for a while…I tried to be on better terms and patch things up with her but she is ignoring my calls and wont even talk to me in person…now her and my good Guy friend are going out..She badmouths me to him and it upset me..She says rude things to him about me.. He has been ignoring me as well (just recently ) and I suspect its because they just started going out and he doesnt want to upset her by hanging out with ME(he doesnt want to rock the boat).. anyways I want to remain friends with the guy but BOTH of them are not returning my calls or communicating with me..how can I remain friends with them when they are ignoring me?how can I save the friendship?

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Answer #1

yea dude just try what he said excpet don’t hug him cause that like happned to me once i just talked with my mate and said yous are just takeing the piss out of me all the time and he just said ok dude i’ll stop it he said he was just showing off in frount of his gf my mate to.

Answer #2

hey its pretty ovious that you really want to stay friends with at least the guy. well the only advice i can give you is to talk to the guy in person and just tell him who you fell. as for the girl i dont what you can do to mend that relationship i hope that after a while she will just get overwhatever she has against you. oh and coming from a guy when talking to the guy dont complain alot, and try not to get pissed off, and remember a girl crying is a guys weakness. im by no means saying to start crying as soon as yall start talking but if it looks like you arent getting through to him then crying and hugging him tightly will make him think about you alot more than you yelling at him or just complain. i hope that you can work this all out, i wish you the best of luck and God bless.

Answer #3

also try not to cry maby you should try to say “look dude the way your geting on is real fly and stuff why have you started acting like this man”. also good luck man tell me if him or her is talking to you again. !,,! (0_0) !,,!

Answer #4

Yo it’s channa-nirvana i can’t get my acc back =(

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