guitly & confused

So I posted a quetion about this earlier but I need some more advice about it because it has become more complicated. I kissed the guy my friend likes and I feel so guilty about it but I think I may like him to I mean he is all I think about I want to just hug him and hold his hand but at the same time I have a lot on my plate right now and dont really want a boyfriend not to mention my friend likes him too :( I dont know what to do!!! help!!! should I go out with him he thanked me yesterday for making him the happiest he has ever been and I just dont know what to do

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Answer #1

Follow your heart and good sense but be honest with all concerned…mostly yourself.

Answer #2

I agree w/ amblessed.

Definatley follow your heart!

If you dont’ want a boyfriend right now, then don’t go out with him, but keep in touch. It never hurts to have more friends! I would’nt confuse the situation by making out with him or holding hands anymore. Hugs are ok, but keep it on a friendly level. Maybe consider doing other things with him, be honest, he needs to know where you stand before it goes any further…no one wants to be hurt…life is tough, you will be stronger later on if this occurs again, even if the two of you don’t actually date…think of it as one small step towards being a better person, it’s a learning process too, about getting to know yourself better!
It’s ok to be vulnerable, it’s part of being human…if he really likes you, he’ll understand and respect you for your wishes…and he will learn from the situation too…