Growing up too fast

I feel pressured, girls younger than me all look older than me I mean like im 15 and look 12 where as these 12 yr olds look 18 and there use to be a time when no one cared also girls in my year are so slim not anorexic but healthy and mature and responsible, im a healthy weight, I know I am im mature and responsible but just because im the prettiest no1 respects I cant hate them for that even if they are the popular girls I feel so pressured and I feel like it is wrong to be me and they always take the piss saying that I need to grow up, im a girl who goes out with friends occasionally but still likes hanging out with the family and having sleepovers lol I just feel like at 15 I shouldnt have to grow up and I should be able to be a kid but society wont let me< is that wrong

Answer #1

seriously not everyone in our year are slim and responsible and mature!! In fact most of the girls are kids at heart. None of us want to grow up but that’s something we have to do - if you hung around with me and my friends you would realise that!! We are all big kids! And as far as yr appearance - you r deffo not the ugliest in our year! your very pretty!! you r you and don’t try to be anyone but u! Everyone is different -despite how we come across to other people! We all get depressed - that’s what being a teenage girl is about! Don’t worry about the things you do!! I have never had a boyfriend either and I no a lot of people who haven’t either! I reckon lots of people exagerate anyway! Wait till you find a mature enough boy because let’s face it there are very few in our year!! and no I’m not telling you who I am- but I do know u! Be careful about your identity - I won’t tell anyone the things you have said on here!

Answer #2

Be who you are!! Don’t let anyone pressure you into growing up to soon. You only have one childhood, enjoy it!!

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