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Okay I’m a teenager right I’m about 14 years old very young and I don’t know what to do EVERYONE I know is having sex, drinking, smoking pot, experiencing with other drugs as well as their sexuality. I’m getting so sick of hearing about sex and kids drinking and passing out, and messin up their lives with drugs I’ve scene people that went down that path (parents and family) and I know what it can do especially when you get older. I choose not to hang around people who have anything to do with drugs than again everyone I know is doing it and I feel so left out my friends have done it and lets just say I’m done with them if this continues. I also feel bad that I don’t have a boyfriend any more and seeing others with there boyfriends and seeing how close the relationship is (I miss that) I’m even surprised I even had a boyfriend for that mater. Every time I get close to a living male the subject is always sex and everyone is having sex and getting pregnant but I rather have sex with a man rather than a boy. I’m afraid I will never get a guy in my life time and some people considering me being a not so pretty girl let alone attractive. There was one girl saying to everyone “she could never get a boyfriend”- that hurt and maybe its true by that way shes one of the (“ACTIVE”) girls at my school.. Any way what should I do everyone looks down on me now since I um spoke my mind I just don’t fit in any where not in beauty, grace, or life considering with everyone else. I don’t want to be thee GIRL I just want to have someone I can trust and confined in including a boyfriend but that may be out of reach for me.

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Answer #1

Thank you so much rozzy =)

Answer #2

Good on you, I went through mostly the same thing too, though I never had a boyfriend when I was that age. I stay away from all that crap, even now, and I have great friends (and a great boyfriend) who feels the same way. It’s good to be your own person and have your own individuality. It’s kinda sad to see when some of your ‘friends’ becoming a trend-follower and smoke/do drugs/etc just to be like everyone or just because it’s ‘accepted as the norm’. It’s good to have some principles in your life.

Answer #3

I had the excate same exprience my self don’t do what other people are doing just to look cool or act cool don’t even let anywan pressurise you eitherr having a boyfriend is wll not about having sex its about having a strong relationship to show your love for each other if thats all a boy is looking for hes a tOtal jerk just find new friends who feel the excate same way you doo

good luck :) X

Answer #4

You shut yourself from the world too much. Sure everybody as sex, smoke, or drink but that doesn’t mean you have to do it. You just have to keep on making your own decisions and stay above the influence. I do everything but that doesn’t mean I’m a bad person or anything thing like that. And it also means that not all people who do as I do are evil and will harm you. You just have to face the fact and think optimistically. Rather then think that everyone will drag you down and force you to drink and smoke. Rape is another case, but anyway you make it seem as if guys are the most perverted creatures in the world. Maybe we are but girls are just as perverted. I talk to a lot of chicks and firmly I look for relationships and stuff like that and not just sex. A lot of chicks I talk to come out of the woods with all this crazy perverted and horny side of theirs. I mean they’re not sluts either but they accept their feelings and hormones. It’s up to you to accept, sooner or later you’ll find a group who are as abstinent as you.. And you can’t let no one else bring you down, if they tell you something negative it’s probably because they’re insecure with themselves.

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