Is it a good place to get fingered in the park?

erm no it will be my first time so i was thinking well maybe people have been ingered myte noee the best places 2 go for itt

You’re 14, for one. You don’t HAVE to do this you know. Just throwing that out there. If you do, the park is so not a good idea. Do you know how many people go to the park? You could be seen at any moment. The best idea is to go to a movie theater at a time when no one will be in there. Sit in the back in the darkest seats possible and bring a jacket to put over your legs. He can move in from there. As for being a slag, that’s up to you. Do you feel comfortable doing it? I don’t know if it’s really appropriate considering your age and amount of time with the boy, but that’s up to your moral standards. It would be wrong of me or anyone else to judge you if you feel comfortable.

My boyfriend and I used to go to parks late at night to have fun, but we didn’t get out, we just stayed in our car. Even so, we were caught a couple times by cops who patrol, looking exactly for that. Still, if neither of your homes are available, it’s no worse than anywhere else, at least at night. Except the beach! Don’t ever fuck on the beach… one word… SAND! eeps

As Heaven said, it’s something you need to think about. Is this something you really want to do and are interested in? If so, go for it. It doesn’t make you a slut. A slut is a girl (or guy) who sleeps around with lots of different people.

If you really aren’t comfortable with doing anything sexual yet, or just feel pressured, then don’t do it.

I think, if he’s interested in fingering you, then he’s interested in giving you pleasure, not just receiving it. But be careful because some guys, especially when they’re older than you, try to use the, “Well I took care of you, so you have to take care of my needs too” scheme, so if you at all feel like he’s pressuring you then, as I said, be careful, and make your own judegment call. Personally, my boyfriend of 3+ years made me comfortable with the idea of getting physical because he offered to rub me, and slowly, we got around to it, and I liked it. He didn’t pressure me to do more, he let me get comfortable with experimenting and we both found out what we liked and what we didn’t as we did more things sexually.

not if there is people around or little kids cuz no bdy really wants to see dat!