Should it be given time or not?

If you met back up with someone you dated (the only reason for the split was to young and parents) and there were a lot of feelings still there between you two and you wanted to explore the possibility of being together again. This person has never lied to you ever and you fill you can still trust them. But they have told you they have been dating someone. Not serious at all just really going out but that person’s attached in a bad way in a short period of time and the ex says they’re driving them crazy and that they are trying to get that person to slowly just move on to someone else. To just wait and give them sometime to handle this their way. That the person if delt with the wrong way might tear up their house, stuff or cars. Would you give them time to do this and if so how much time?

Answer #1

Honestly, no, I would not give them time because I think that’s a stupid excuse.

If I was with someone whom I did not like, I would just end it. It does not matter how much the other person is attached. I have broken it off with people who were way too attached before, and I have gotten a protective order before, so it can be done.

If the person comes back to wreck stuff, the police can be called. That’s what they’re there for. I know it’s not fun to have to break up with someone, maybe watch them throw a fit, and even have to involve the police if it does get bad enough, but I say it’s worth it to get the crazy person out of my life. I would not want to live in fear of them and stay with them just in case they might slash my tires if I try to leave. That’s no way to live.

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