Do girls want to be skinny just to be proud?

IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON I WEIGH 111 and IM 5’0 MAYBE 5’1 BUT IDC..I AM SKINNY BUT FIT I LK TO B SKINNY FOR ME TO B HAPPY BOUT MY SELF BUT I REMEMBER when I 1ST WEIGHED 125 LAST SKOOL YR and I LOST WEIGHT VERY DRAMATICLY BECAUSE people SAID I WAS FAT BUT OTHER people SAID I WAS HEALTHY NOW I LOOK BK and I WAS HEALTHY I MEAN I WAS ACTIVE and ALL I JUS WANTED ALL THE COMMENTS TO STOP and NOW THEY SAY IM SKINNY and SOME people SAY IM JUS RIGHT BUT NOW I GET REMARKS LK I HAVE LIL BOOBS because OF IT BUT C when I LOST WEIGHT I WAS IN TRACK and LIFTED WEIGHTS and I WAS IN SHAPE THE WHOLE TIME BUT I WEAR AN A38 ITS NOT BAD TO ME ..ID RATHER HAVE THE SIZE I HAVE and IT B MUSCLE THEN THE GURLS WITH BIG ONES and ITS FAT WITH STRETCH MARKS…U know what I MEAN.. WELL I HOPE I HELPED you OUT and DONT WORRY ABOUT DIETING UNLESS your DOC RECOMMENDS because NOW I HAVE TRUBLE GAININ WEIGHT BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT I WAS VERY INTO STAYIN IN SHAPE THAT I WORKED OUT a lot TO KEEP MUSCLE and I BOOSTED MY MATABALISM UP a lot SO and E WAYZ I HOPE I HELPED you OUT —COULD you please ANSWER MY ?? IN MY PROFILE– THNX MARI

well theres quite a lot of pressure on girls to be thin, when I was younger everyone would tease me for being a larger girl but when I lost weight no one noticed so I figured out that people look for someone to pick on and it can be about size, race… ANYTHING. So people try to change themselves to fit in.

Thats all I can think of el

I am a big girl and I am accepted! I am 5’3 and weigh 240 lbs! I am happy. I go out and have a great time. I lead a very normal life. If people dont like me for me then they arent the type of people I want to be friends with! I live my life to be my self not to mold my self into something everyone wants me to be, look like, dress like, and be molded into something I am uncomfortable with!