So I seem to catch my boyfriend always looking at other girls.

I mean I know he likes the sex, but I dont want him if thats the only reason hes with me, and honestly the only reason I know hes with me is because oh how much I care about him.

All guys perve (that’s what they do best) even if their own girlfriends scrubs up pretty good…Don’t stress too much over it, he’s dating you so you must have something he likes. :)

Personally I don’t think looking at the opposite sex to be a bad thing, everyone likes eyes candy, whether your a girlfriend or boyfriend…If your boyfriend isn’t tossing (wanking) himself over the photos of these girls then I think it’s ok…If your really upset and losing sleep over it, then talk to him or box him in the head and tell him to stop perving.

Also agreed with mellymoo’s advice.

No worries, he is exploring his sexuallity as you should be. Like she said, Everone does it, its natural to look, to act on it is something different. You should act with it, this will show him your NOT bad about it and he will respect you open attitude. This means: When he looks at someone, ask him NICELY..” What is it that you like about her?” He will be shocked at first, reasure him its ok, your just want to know. This will relax your relationship and you just might find out a little more about him… and you. Good Luck, Jeff TBP

feel good about you! think of it this way. if you think he likes that type of girl so much, why isnt he dateing someone like that. think, if you were like that, he prob wouldnt date you. hes with you, and not them, there for they should be jealous of you! not the other way around. and its human nature to look at other people. I think in his case he needs to be respectful about it tho. and as for you just believe him when he says that he isnt interested in them, and loves you. im engaged to me girlfriend but still look here and there, but it doesnt mean anything to me, I dont even think anything of it. its just dazeing. but when I look at her, its more, in a different way, and theres passion. I love her tremendously and I always will. I tihnk your boyfriend is most likely on the same page as me, doing what I do sometimes. and honestly, its human nature. if he didnt look he would prob feel like hes in a cage and doesnt want to do anything he feels that’ll upset u, but after a time period, people cant fight whats just natural. its human nature but he needs to be respectful to u. if he doesnt be then, kick his a**. lol :)