what... girls advise me please?

When in a relationship with a guy, do you like it when he sends a pic of himself, his bits etc etc? I know it happens but i have never sent one of my cough cough and wondered what girls really think etc?

Answer #1

I think its actually really gross and innapropriate if my boyfriend did that id feel uncomfortable because its like an expectation for me to send a private pic back. Plus you have to be careful those pics have a way of traveling around

Answer #2

Eh, a lot of women don’t get turned on by d1ck pics. It’s cool to send if you just know she’ll like it, but other than that, I’d let her see it in person and save the picture. I would have likely smacked my husband if I had opened a message with his pen1s looking back at me. Just saying.

Answer #3

thanks for reply

Answer #4

thanks for reply

Answer #5

Yes they are right, girls really aren’t like that. I guess guys like that kind of thing but girls like to be more sweet and personal. Sending a pic is not sweet or romantic in any way. If she ever wants a pic she’ll ask you or take one herself, hopefully with your permission of course.

Answer #6

No, I don’t think you should send it unless she asks you to. I’ve gotten a couple and my first reaction was ‘’Ugh….’’ not because they were small or anything (okay, maybe they were :P) but it’s just disrespectful to me… It’s like: La de da, going grocery shopping. beep, beep Oh! My, I have a message? Who could that be… let’s open it, shall we?’’ (PEN1S!) bleh…

Answer #7

thanks for the answers everyone, much appreciated! i certainly wasnt keen on sending a pic, but heard stuff and wondered do girls really want a random pic etc etc… it seems it is a bad idea and i realise if she asks, then maybe i would, but i certainly wont do it randomly :D

Answer #8

A picture of your abs, now…. THAT you can get away with.. whew.. ;P

Answer #9

hehe :D

Answer #10

I would say no… and everyone’s already explained why, so yeah. X) Don’t send

Answer #11

“because its like an expectation for me to send a private pic back” Oh boy, is that true. xD

Answer #12

I wouldn’t want my boyfriend randomly sending my pictures of his fun parts. I leave my phone sitting around my house and you know how damn nosey people are. The last thing I need is someone opening up a text message and seeing his family jewels. Jeesh. I mean, if she asks for it then if you’re comfortable with sending a picture of you buddy to her, then go for it. Sending it at random, though? Some chicks might not care, but I would. :) Also, when you guys eventually break up and possibley even before that, she could go around showing it to all her friends. I have friends that do that. One did that to me today, actually. I don’t want to see your man’s junk. Oh, he has a birthmark on the head of his mini me? Wonderful, I do not care to see it.

Answer #13

personally i’m not a big fan of it. my guy has sent me pictures of his abs because he knows i like them and i’m ok with that but I’ve never been one for getting pics of guys cough cough haha

Answer #14

Keep that between you and she in your person 1-0-1 time dearie. Unless she asks for pics of your bits, then I’d say not.

I’m not a fan of it.

Answer #15

XD!!!!!

Answer #16

Love ur abs!H-O-T now that’s what you should send I mean it’s just your abs not your ding dong =/

Answer #17

don’t unless she asks for it. Do not ask for one from her she’d feel pressured and wierd. If she wants to give you one she will.

Answer #18

thanks, i sent pic of my abs, but we also broke up now just a few days later :(

Answer #19

thanks, i sent pic of my abs, but we also broke up now just a few days later :(

Answer #20

my boyfrnd asked me to send such a pic to him bt i refused.within 15 mins he came to my place cz he knew i ws alone.i opnd the door and askd him wat hapnd.without say nething he lifted me n took me to my bedroom.he then tore my tube dress inside wich i had not worn my bra.i was shocked bt he was continously staring at my boobs.he then asked me to remove my panty n i refused again.he then came closer to me n put his hand inside my panty n starting rubbing there.i was outta my senses.i wanted him 2 tear my panty n he did the same way n threw it away.then he took off his clothes bt v cud only hug n kiss untill my parents came back.bt i called him the next day to cm again to complete wat was left the half way.he came vry soon n tore my clothes the same he did earlier.we had our first sexual encounter that day.i can say he kinda raped me…..bt i njoyed it lyk heaven n i asked him to do that again n again….aah…aaaahhhh…..

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