Girlfriend is different

My girlfriend and I have alot of similarities, we love games, same things and stuff like that.

I am a very open person, she sorta isn’t… I’m not stubborn, she is. She does some things that I find uncomfortable, for example: She will post a myspace bulletin that is like this.

Survey!

Do you think… [ ] I am your next bf/gf [ ] we should make out

Or whatever, she’s only done it once though. I asked her why she posted it and she gave me this kind of answer “I was bored, I can”

When we are actually together it’s much funner around her, but when we talk online it’s like shes a different person. When we are on the phone it’s pretty cool, same as when we are actually close to each other. Any advice about how I should take this relationship?

Answer #1

Us girls..can be controlling…VERY controlling..I know I am..like I will do something but expect my boyfriend not to, so it is really tough..she just needs to try and respect some of your feelings, but do not try and control her it will only push her away.

Answer #2

i’m gonna say this once and only once!!

SHE IS A GIRL!!! GIRLS GET MOODY SOMETIMES!!!!! FIND OUT WHAT HER “TIME OFTHE MONTH” IS!! OK!

ok

Answer #3

well i can so tell you like her alot.. but just ask her why she is acting differnt on ine and stuff.. perhaps she feels as thouigh she can be a different prson on line b/c no one is liiking her in the eyes.. like i bet you lovingly do and it propably brings ou the real her..

if it seems like this is unrealistic… its not. i was the same way untill my kight in shining armor swept me bac to reality.. and still is.

so just help her and always love her

Answer #4

Ok let me try then! 2 people dont have to be the same to make a relationship work, as they say opposites attract. You just have to get to know each other and accept each other for who you both are thats all. Get to know her a little more, maybe she is just a quircky chick who does random things to try and make you laugh, or thats her way to make you smile and let you know she is thinking about you. Or maybe she was just plain and simply bored! So just relax and dont think so much, the more time you spend with her the more you’ll get to know her, just keep being yourself and everything will fall into place.

Answer #5

You guys don’t understand, the first answer: You have NO idea wtf your talking about, she is a wonderful person and don’t talk like you know her.

Answer 2: I like your answer a bit better, but it doesn’t solve my problem. She has a HUGE personal bubble, if I pushed her away it wouldn’t matter, she’s very free spirited anyway. Basically, she and I stay out of each other’s family business, but your advice isn’t what I am looking for.

As for the first answer, your a deuche bag.

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